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20 Questions to Ask on a College Visit: Parent and Student Lists college planning college visit Jul 28, 2026

Written by Kathy LePage, PhD, Certified School Psychologist & Educational Consultant — Helping families make thoughtful educational decisions with clarity and calm.


 

Quick answer: The most important college visit questions cover academics, campus life, and — most often skipped — cost. Ask dir...

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3 College Visit Mistakes Families Make and How to Avoid Them college planning college visit Jul 21, 2026

Written by Kathy LePage, PhD, Certified School Psychologist & Educational Consultant — Helping families make thoughtful educational decisions with clarity and calm.


 

Quick answer: The three most common college visit mistakes are registering too late, touring without a way to compare schools, ...

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When Should You Start Visiting Colleges? A Grade-by-Grade Guide college planning Jul 15, 2026

Written by Kathy LePage, PhD, Certified School Psychologist & Educational Consultant — Helping families make thoughtful educational decisions with clarity and calm.


 

Quick answer: Most families should start informal college visits in 10th grade, take serious tour-and-info-session visits in 11...

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Why College and Career Talks Feel Hard for Teens and Parents career exploration college planning communication high school parent resources parents teens Jul 03, 2026

And how to make them easier without turning every question into pressure.

You ask your teen, “So, what are you thinking for college?” and suddenly the room gets tense.

They shrug.
They say, “I don’t know.”
They look annoyed.
You feel like you are just trying to help, but somehow the conversation a...

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Can You Negotiate a Financial Aid Offer? 8 Questions Before May 1 college planning fafsa financial aid scholarship displacement Apr 17, 2026

Parents reviewing college financial aid award letters and costs before the May 1 decision deadlineCan You Negotiate a Financial Aid Offer? 8 Questions to Ask Before May 1

The short answer: you can ask for a financial aid review

The financial aid letters have arrived. Your student has acceptances. May 1 is closer than it feels.

And if your house is like most families we talk to at FutureU, you...

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Why Students (and Young Professionals) Feel Stuck Choosing a Career—And What Actually Helps career assessments career exploration college majors mbti self understanding students young professionals Apr 14, 2026

Students and young professionals are being asked to make big life decisions… without actually understanding how they operate.

And then we act surprised when they feel stuck.

Because here’s what typically happens:

They guess. They follow what sounds good. They listen to what parents, friends, or t...

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Kids Aren’t “Soft.” They’re Untrained. college athletes college readiness emotional regulation executive functioning skills high school athletes life skills mental performance mindset parents resilience stress and anxiety stress management teen mental health Mar 27, 2026

 I keep hearing the same thing: 
“Kids these days are soft.”
“They need to toughen up.”

But here’s the problem -

we’re expecting kids to have skills that are never actually taught.


Let’s Make This Make Sense

If you handed me a calculus exam right now, I wouldn’t suddenly “toughen up” and figure...

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What to Do When Your Teen Gets Rejected From a College college admissions college rejection handling disappointment parent stress parent's college stress series parenting teens resilience Mar 25, 2026

Part 4 of 4: Handling Rejection - This article is part of The Parent’s College Stress Series - a 4-part series designed to help you stay steady, supportive, and strategic during the college process.


Rejection hurts 

If your teen receives a denial or waitlist decision, your reaction matters more ...

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Is a 3-Year College Degree Right for Your Student? career exploration college affordability college costs college planning college readiness parents students teen mental health Mar 20, 2026

There’s a shift happening in higher education: Colleges are trying to turn a 4-year degree into a 3-year degree.

On the surface, it sounds like a win:

  • Less cost
  • Less debt
  • Faster income
  • A clearer, more “get in, get out” approach

And honestly? That’s why it’s gaining traction. Because let’s ...

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How to Talk About Paying for College Without Panic college affordability college costs financial aid parent stress parent's college stress series parenting teens paying for college Mar 18, 2026

Part 3 of 4: Money Conversations - This article is part of The Parent’s College Stress Series - a 4-part series designed to help you stay steady, supportive, and strategic during the college process.

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How to Support Your Teen During College Applications Without Micromanaging college admissions college applications college planning micromanaging parent stress parent's college stress series parenting teens teen independence Mar 11, 2026

Part 2 of 4: Mentor vs. Manager - This article is part of The Parent’s College Stress Series - a 4-part series designed to help you stay steady, supportive, and strategic during the college process.


There’s a fine line between supporting and hovering.

Teens need increasing autonomy during late a...

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Why Parents Feel So Stressed About College Admissions college admissions college anxiety college planning family transition parent anxiety parent stress parent's college stress series parenting teens senior year Mar 04, 2026

Part 1 of 4: Why Are Parents So Stressed About College Admissions?

This article is part of The Parent’s College Stress Series - a 4-part series designed to help you stay steady, supportive, and strategic during the college process.


If you feel more anxious than your teenager about college applic...

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